Showing posts with label daughter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label daughter. Show all posts

Friday, April 9, 2021

T W E L V E

Tomorrow my first baby turns 12!!! I always say that C is my war buddy. We went through all the parenthood stuff together, she's taught me so much and continues to. 



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C continues to be kind hearted and helpful. She is so self sufficient, helping to make meals, sort laundry and walk the dog with minimal complaining. She is an amazing caregiver to pets.  She is very determined and coins herself a feminist. 

C is bright... she quietly chugs away at her projects and aces them. I love our mom daughter conversations and how opinionated and principled she is. After a really great chat with her, I think to myself, this is why I always wanted only daughters. There are moments of brilliance and intense introspection. After an initial adjustment, she took really well to home schooling :-). 

This year, she has also been obsessed with Broadway musicals. She is especially a fan of Hamilton and Six... she has more playlists than I do on my Spotify account. She still does violin and still doesn't practise nearly enough. She also advanced to the gold novice team in swimming... early Saturday morning practices are not her favourite but the grilled cheese her dad gets her after are. These days she is focused on changing her "aesthetic" and her "room's aesthetic." 


This has been a year of great transition, growth and beauty for this daughter of mine. Hormones have hit with a bang and sometimes we don't know what hit us.... Sidenote, Covid and not seeing friends also hit hard so it all contributed. The sass and the tears are there sometimes but so are many moments of laughter, silliness and hugs. 

Happy Birthday, C! I'm so proud of who you are and so blessed that I was chosen to be your mother. I have a strong suspicion that come #13 you'll be taller than I am. 




Have a wonderful weekend, friends! XOXOX


Linking up with Andrea because if my firstborn's birthday isn't a favourite, I don't know what is....

Friday, February 5, 2021

No grain, no pain

Though technically, there are many gluten free grains... some of which we've incorporated into our diet.

Dear Gluten,

It's not you, it's her.  On Christmas Eve 2020 (Merry Christmas to us), we got a call from A's pediatrician saying she tested positive for celiac markers. In 2019, she had another autoimmune and had been experiencing intense stomach pains for quite a few months. We tried different things including meds (both OTC and prescription), natural remedies and physical work with her. Nothing worked and if anything , it was getting worse. We were relieved and overwhelmed all at once when we finally got a diagnosis. Relieved that we finally found a cause for the intense pain and discomfort but overwhelmed because hello lifestyle change for our little miss going forward.

We decided to become gluten free as an entire household (for the most part)  to make things easier for meal prep, to avoid contamination and to support A as much as we could. Sidenote, we are still finishing up as much of the crackers/appetizers in the house. As Darin and I went Keto for quite a while and then transitioned to low carb, it would not be a huge deal for us. For the goldfish obsessed chicklets in the house, another story.

So here we are more than a month into the process. As per our doctor's recommendation, she is going completely gluten free for a few months. Going forward, for special occasions if she wishes, she can indulge knowing that it will possibly cause some tummy trouble. We are hoping that with age it becomes less of an effect for her but who knows at this point? Her tummy pain has definitely eased up a bit though not completely. The way I'm looking at it, things could definitely be worse. 


                                    

We were all at home in January, a good thing since we've been able to experiment. We've found some wonderful substitutes and we've been trying different things. There are so many gluten free resources available. Takeout is a little more tricky but the couple of places we have tried have been so knowledgeable and helpful. 

            


So many available resources:
1- Word of mouth. One of A's classmates' moms found out and has been a wealth of information on different places locally and online. A neighbour of mine also has experience with different grains like millet and sorghum
2- A few  gluten free stores in town with so many delicious items. 
3- A couple local dedicated Facebook pages. It's put me onto different restaurants and different local products.
4- Our mainstream groceries, Costco and Amazon have so many different options available. 





So chug along we will. Slow and steady wins the race?


Have a wonderful weekend, loves.

Linking up with Andrea as gluten free is my new favourite thing to talk about ;-)



Wednesday, July 22, 2020

E I G H T

Today, my baby turns EIGHT!! Let me just say, life is never dull with this little love of ours, that's for sure....

                                                        
A is a firecracker. She has a smile that lights up a room, a salty sense of humour and lots of quirks. Among her diverse interests are pickles, bare feet and shipoos. 

She will tell you as she sees it! She knows what she wants, is wise beyond her years and has a strong sense of principles and morals. This year hasn't been the easiest for A. She was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease last August and she had a really tough time for a few months. Thankfully, she is better now. She is so strong and determined. 

A has a strong sense of family and a big, soft heart. She calls family often, can be found on House Party with my parents and is loyal to those she loves. She is so social and loves when we have people over (a very few and far between occurrence these days). She is very affected when those around her are hurting. She is always leaving little love notes and writing cards for me. Side note, she isn't pleased if perchance she finds I haven't been taking good enough care of them.

                                             

A is always doing stuff... she is obsessed with her loom, always flipping, stretching or bending in different directions, making a plan for if a friend comes over or having a virtual sleepover. She loves occasions and events, dressing up, creating outfits and making things. She is always chatting and has an answer for all of life's questions.... though if you meet her, you'd think she is super shy. Wait until she warms up though....

                                           

Smarts come very easily to A especially math but she will complain for an hour before getting down to business and then complete it in a hot ten minutes. She loves a  check list-- either making one of her own or checking off items from a list I made for her. 


And as is the norm for her birthday, here's a list of questions I ask them on each birthday. It has become one of their favourite birthday traditions and they carefully think before answering each question, knowing that it will be on the blog ;-)


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What is your favourite colour?
Pink and Blue
And your favourite Food?
Buttery Pasta
What toy do you like most?
Rainbow Loom or my American Girl dolls.
What do you like to do the most?
Going in the pool and playing Toca World (she is obsessed)
What's your most beloved Movie? 
That's a hard one. The Trolls World Tour-- they definitely upgraded since the last movie


Who is your Best friend? 
Elin
(She seems to have forgotten about  her school friends.)
What's your Favourite thing about your sister
When she plays with me. 
What's your favourite thing about mommy?
When you cook
(?)
What's your favourite thing about Daddy? 
He is funny. 
What book do you like best? 
My Weird School
(a series that she is obsessed with)
What's your favourite fruit?
Mango 


What's your favourite TV show? 
Teen Titans Go and Austin & Allie
What's your favourite thing to wear? 
Dresses
(this surprised me as she is always in short shorts these days)
What do you want to be when you grow up? 
A restaurant opener... I mean owner
What's your favourite drink?
hmmmm....my favourite drink? Oh my goodness. I like pina Coladas.
(hopefully, she means a virgin colada!!! )
Your best song is? 
Life of The Party and Parachute
And your favourite game?
I really like doing Just Dance--- it's way better than PE with Joe
What's your favourite animal?  
Puppies
What don't you like to do?
I don't like doing swimming lessons because I prefer free style.



This will be a different birthday for A... She started planning her birthday way before COVID even was a thought for us but those plans are awash now. She is now supposed to have a few socially distant, short visits outdoors on the day but now it's supposed to rain.... she has been okay with changing plans in this weird year knowing that things aren't what they usually are.


Happy Birthday, sweet girl. You are this big, beautiful, bright light in a  very little body. Can't wait to see what the future has in store for you. 





Friday, May 29, 2020

Kids’ Corona Quiz

 I got this idea from Sarah and thought it was a wonderful idea to see what these kiddos thought of the coronavirus...
FYI, we have an eleven and seven year old!
What is the Coronavirus?
C: A virus that's kind of like a flu and cold and you get cough, sneezing and headaches. It's pretty okay when you are young like me or A but not so good if you are older.
A: It's a virus spreading around the world

Who is the Prime Minister?
I didn't even ask C this one 
A:of? Justin Trudeau 

How many days have we have been in lockdown?
C:70 days?
A:Maybe like 50 days?

Do you want to go back to school?
C: Yes, I guess but I don't like track and field so it's a good thing we're not doing track and field.
A: Yeah because I want to see my friends.

Who is the first person you're going to hug when lockdown is over?
C: I'm not really sure about that one... (she's at that awkward, no hugging except immediate family phase)
A:mmmmm... my best friends

Where is the first place you want to go?
C: I want to go to Jamaica
A: Jamaica

(As you may have realised, we had a trip planned with my parents and brother) 

What do you think we can do to get rid of Coronavirus?
C: Stay home... just stay home already! (preach!)
A: The fastest way would be to stay in your home and heal... that's one of the quickest ways. 

Is mom a good teacher?
C: Yep
A: Mmm hmmm...
(I don't think they can really say no, can they?)

How did the Coronavirus start?
C: It came from bats and snakes in China and people enjoy eating snakes in their soups.
a: Scientists gave it to bad animals . (hmmmm)

(Clearly, we need to have a more detailed convo about this)

If you had to wear protective clothing to help you what would it be?
C: it would be a mask, my glasses, a hat (she clearly saw me going to Costco)... Oh and gloves (her sister prompted her)
A: long sleeves, long pants, gloves and a mask and very long boots. 

Are you enjoying lockdown?
C: Yahhhhh but I miss social interaction
A; kinda cause when you finish all your work you can leave and have free time. You can't do that when you are in school.

How long do you think it's going to take before we can leave lockdown?
C: 2-3 months. I think... I hope 
A: They say until September but I think, not hope, that it will be October. 

Have a good one, friends!


Monday, October 28, 2019

Fall Y'all

Happy Monday, lovelies! I'm still tired after our Divali celebrations heading late into last night- post coming soon. In the meantime, I took some autumn pics of our girls this past Friday when we had a PD day and intentionally made it a low key day. 




My girls had the sillies that day and I couldn't get them to cooperate.

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You can see it in all the expressions!!








Have a wonderful week!! It's going to be a busy one!





Monday, July 22, 2019

S E V E N

Today our baby turns seven. It is a fun ride with this little one that's for sure. 

A is smart. She is always asking me questions that I in turn have to turn to google for. School is fun and easy for her... so far! Her teacher has said she has the life skill of doing her work while chatting with her peers and distracting said peers but trying to help them at the same time. 

She is scrappy. A keeps us on our toes, that's for sure. She has a quick quip for every question or comment, she oft' wears me out with her sass' and has us in stitches lots. Her comedic timing and her imitating voices crack us up. 

She is stylish and sophisticated. I choose her clothes lots of the time but when she does select them, girlfriend knows what she is doing. Her artwork and her creations are always fun to look at. She also has a very sophisticated palate. 


She is sensitive. She cries easily (like I used to up to even my twenties LOL) and needs to control her emotions at times. We are working on this. However, she is always sensitive to the needs of others as well. She is kind to elders and younger kids. 

She is sincere.  She shares well with her sister (most days) and if anyone is having a tough day, she really tries to help them out! She gives the best hugs and kisses and writes me the most beautiful letters. She even donated her hair to making wigs for kids. 



And here are just a few questions I usually ask my girls on their birthdays. 

What is your favourite colour?
Teal
And your favourite Food?
Baked Potato and sour cream... mashed.
(she is obsessed)

What toy do you like most?
My American Girls. 

What do you like to do the most?
Colour, sing and dance.
(Both girls have the vivofit jr and they are always competing for steps, A almost always gets less)

What's your most beloved Movie? 
Alladin. It was a really nice movie. It didn't get scary at any point. 

Who is your Best friend? 
Nhyeema Rayn.
(A sweet little girl in her grade 1 class )

What's your Favourite thing about your sister
When she plays fun games with me. 

What's your favourite thing about  mommy?
Everything. 
(Oh my heart)


What's your favourite thing about Daddy? 
When he is funny. 


What book do you like best? 
Eloise is one of my favourites. 

What's your favourite fruit ?
Mango and peaches.

What's your favourite TV show? 
iCarly

What's your favourite thing to wear? 
Dresses
(girl can rock a nice dress)

What do you want to be when you grow up? 
A waitress and a hairdresser


What's your favourite drink?
hmmmm....interesting. Pina Colada. 
(hopefully she means a virgin colada!!! No words)

Your best song is? 
Freak the freak out
(This is what happens when you have a 10 yo sis)

And your favourite game?
i Spy

What's your favourite animal?  
Puppies

What don't you like to do?
Shiver...



Happy Birthday, little love of mine. Can't wait to see what the future has in store for you. 




Thursday, May 16, 2019

So Long, Farewell Kindermusik

This last week, we said goodbye to our very favourite Kindermusik. We first started Kindermusik with C in 2009 when she was just over six months old! She finished at 7 YEARS old. Now here we are in 2019 and A's last class.

Kindermusik is a wonderfully crafted and carefully curated curriculum of music introduction for kids from birth until age 6/7. The kids are introduced at a critical age to the joy and wonder of music using stories, songs and  instruments. At the end of the program, the kids are able to actually read music and are introduced to a variety of instruments and songs so that they can decide where their musical journey will next take them! There is so much fun, so much joy and so much musical delight. When C was a baby, I took her to all these different activities when she was less than a year. With A, it was only Kindermusik as we loved it so much. Here are some pictures through the ages as we walk down memory lane.

Here is C's last day, 3 years ago. 

Here's A when she first started



She was so shy and serious!


Her very first music instructor... Miss Michelle. She taught both my kids at different times for many different classes.


We even did some family classes. 


Where did my babies go?!



I used to get there early so she have some play time and be comfortable in the class.


Slowly, she began to come out of her shell.








This teacher was with her for most of her KM classes and we got to finish with her.

At first the parents are inside and slowly, they go outside. 



They also threw the best Halloween and end of year parties.






And here we are finally for the last class.


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The girls had mini recitals and put on a skit and a musical interlude.

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A little party and presents from the teacher after!
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If you are looking for a music class for a young child, friends, I highly recommend and encourage you to look into this program. It has brought so much joy to my family!




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